...๑۩۩..娜娜的悠悠居..۩۩๑...: 感情的立足點

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

感情的立足點

感情這回事最關鍵不是對方是否喜歡自己，
先問問自己是否喜歡對方。…這是一個立足點。

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誠實是力量的一種象徵，它顯示著一個人的高度自重和內心的安全感與尊嚴感. -艾琳卡瑟

We cannot let another person into our hearts or minds unless we empty ourselves. We can truly listen to him or truly hear her only out of emptiness. - M. Scott Peck

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. -Carl Jung

To fake it is to stand guard over emptiness. - Arthur Herzog

Our Greatest pretences are built up not to hide the evil and the ugly in us, but our emptiness. The hardest thing to hide is something that is not there. - Eric Hoffer

帶著"自我"永遠不可能有愛。"自我"只想被愛，因為這樣才會被需要。愛不是你能夠做的事情，愛是你存在的本質, 也就是當你成為你"自己"時，愛才會發生。-紀伯倫《人子耶穌》

Boredom is an emptiness filled with insistence. - Leo Stein

We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light. - Plato

生命最大的幸福是確信我們是被愛的。是完全因為自己的本色而被愛。儘管我們是這樣的人，依舊被愛。 - 雨果（Victor Hugo)

束縛是堅韌的, 但是要撕破它的時候，我的心又要痛。我只要自由，得到自由時我卻覺得羞愧。我確知那無價之寶是在你那裡, 而且你是我最好的朋友, 但我卻捨不得清除我滿屋的浮華俗物，我身上披的是塵灰與死亡之衣; 我恨它, 卻又熱愛地把它抱緊。我的虧欠很多, 我的失敗很大, 我的羞愧既隐密又深重; 但當我來求悔改的時候, 我又恐懼顫抖, 唯恐我的祈求能得實現。泰戈爾《吉檀迦利》

Nothing is there to be done. There is nothing to do. One has just to be. Have a rest and be ordinary and be natural. - Osho

I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. - Mother Teresa

我一直活在瘋狂的邊緣，等待著了解事物的緣由而不斷地敲著門。門開了。原來我一直是在門內敲打著。- Rumi

It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is impossible to find it elsewhere. - Agnes Repplier

We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same. - Carlos Castenada

Nothing is so strong as gentleness and nothing is so gentle as real strength. - Ralph W. Sockman

Now I hope to break through into the rough rocky depths, to the matrix itself. There is violence there and anger never resolved - May Sarton in Jornal of a Solitude.

Don't take life too seriously. You'll never get out of it alive - Elbert Hubbard

Trying is a part of failing. If you are afraid to fail then you're afraid to try. - Evelyn Cunningham

愛真理，忠實地生活，這是至上的生活態度。沒有一點虛偽，沒有一點寬恕，對自己忠實，對別人也忠實，你就可以做你自己的行為的裁判官。- 巴金

知者不惑，仁者不憂，勇者不懼 - 孔子

One thing only I know, and that is that I know nothing. - Socrates

吾善養浩然之氣。 - 孟子

太柔則靡，太剛則折；剛自柔出，柔能克剛。- 曾国藩

When you look long into an abyss, the abyss looks into you. - Friedrich Nietzsche

In order to improve the mind, we ought less to learn, than to contemplate. - Rene Descartes

大勇若怯，大智若愚。- 蘇東坡

最可怕的是停滯，不，在藝術中沒有停滯，不進則退，當在退步時，開始機械化的產品，那就意味永遠寫出同樣的東西 - 芥川龍之介. 羅生門序言

欲勝人者必先自勝；欲論人者必先自論；欲知人者必先自知。 - 吕不韋

Literature is the art of writing something that will be read twice; journalism what will be read once. - Cyril Connolly

生命是以時間為單位的，浪費別人的時間等於謀財害命；浪費自己的時間，等於慢性自殺。- 魯迅

知止而後有定,定而後能靜,靜而後能安,安而後能慮, 慮而後能得。-《大學》

Try again, fail again. Fail better. - Samuel Beckett

Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody's going to know whether you did it or not. - Oprah Winfrey

凡戰者，以正合，以奇勝。故善出奇者，無窮如天地，不竭如山河。- 孫武

芝蘭生於幽林，不以無人而不芳；君子修道立德，不為窮困而改節。 - 孔子

是故百戰百勝，非善之善也；不戰而屈人之兵，善之善者也。-孫武

我們只願在真理的聖壇之前低頭，不願在一切物質權威之前拜倒。- 郭沫若

A weak man has doubts before a decision. A strong man has them afterwards.- Carl Kraus

一切真知都是從直接經驗發源的。- 毛澤東

Better to write for yourself and have no public than to write for the public and have no self.- Cyril Connolly

Man usually avoids attributing cleverness to somebody else unless it's an enemy.- Albert Einstein

養生治性，行義求志。- 蘇東坡

孔曰成仁，孟曰取義，惟其義盡，所以仁至。讀聖賢書，所學何事？而今而後，庶幾無愧。- 文天祥〈衣帶贊〉

天才的悲劇於被小而舒適的名望所束縛。 - 芥川龍之介

In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act. - George Orwell

用人如器，各取所長。- 司馬光

Many people have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose. - Helen Keller

人皆知有用之用，而莫知無用之用也 - 莊子

The healthy man does not torture others. Generally it is the tortured who turn into torturers.- Carl Jung

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. - Abraham Lincoln

讀書，可以保持生命的鮮度。- 黃石城

人不可有傲氣，但不可無傲骨。- 徐悲鴻

清心為治本，直道是身謀。- 包拯

時勢為天子，未必貴也；窮為匹夫，未必賤也。貴賤之分，在於行之美惡。- 莊子

沒有情感的理智，是無光彩的金塊，而無理智的情感，是無鞍鐙的野馬。-郁達夫

鍥而舍之,朽木不折；鍥而不舍, 金石可鏤。- 荀子《勸學》

強大處下,　柔弱處上 - 老子

不知命，無以為君子；不知禮，無以立人也；不知言，無以知人也。- 論語

其疾如風，其徐如林，侵掠如火，不動如山，難知如陰，動如雷震。 - 孫武

君子處其實，不處其華；治其內，不治其外。- 張居正

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